Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual concern characterized by the involuntary release of ejaculatory fluid before either partner desires. According to the American Urological Association, there is no universally accepted definition for PE, making it difficult to pin down a specific duration that signifies the condition.

A 2019 research review revealed that roughly 30% of individuals with penises experience PE occasionally. This prevalence has led to an influx of dubious online remedies claiming to alleviate PE, including the bizarre suggestion of applying toothpaste to the penis. Some questionable social media sources even promise that toothpaste can extend erections significantly.

If you are tempted to try this method, it is vital to acknowledge upfront that toothpaste will not resolve issues associated with premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. In fact, applying toothpaste to your genital area could be harmful.

The Risks of Using Toothpaste on Sensitive Skin

According to Dr. Paul C. Thur, a urologist, using toothpaste on genitalia carries considerable risks. "If it were harmless, it might be worth considering. However, toothpaste contains various chemicals, including bleach and peppermint oil, which can irritate and burn sensitive skin," he explains.

Additionally, applying toothpaste can lead to skin irritations or more serious conditions like cellulitis, a bacterial infection that may result in complications such as penile scarring. Furthermore, introducing these chemicals can negatively affect your partner, potentially causing infections or irritation in their genital area.

Effective Home Remedies for Premature Ejaculation

Fortunately, there are various safe and effective at-home remedies for managing premature ejaculation:

• Lidocaine Cream: Applying a medical-grade lidocaine cream reduces sensation and hypersensitivity. It’s advisable to wash off the cream before any penetrative activity to prevent its transmission to your partner. Wait about 15 to 30 minutes post-application before washing it off for optimal effect.
• Adjust Positions: Certain sexual positions can lead to less friction during intercourse; for example, having your partner lie on top may be beneficial.
• Condom Use: Wearing condoms can diminish sensation and help delay ejaculation. Some condoms contain numbing agents like lidocaine for enhanced effect.
• Masturbation: Engaging in solo sexual activity a few hours prior to intercourse can help improve endurance during partnered sex.

When to Seek Professional Help

While premature ejaculation is widespread, the nuances of its causes—be they biological, psychological, or a combination of both—can be complex. PE is categorized into two types:

• Lifelong PE: This occurs frequently and typically starts with early sexual experiences.
• Acquired PE: This develops later in life after a period of regular sexual activity.

Both varieties of PE can be effectively treated. If PE only occurs occasionally and does not adversely affect your life or your partner’s, treatment may not be urgent. However, if it impacts your quality of life, self-esteem, or relationships, seeking help is advisable.

Dr. Thur notes, "This condition is manageable, often through prescription medications. Urologists sometimes use selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) off-label to help, as a delayed orgasm is a known side effect of these drugs." SSRIs, such as fluoxetine, paroxetine, and sertraline, have shown efficacy in studies, despite their off-label use. Options for use can vary between daily dosing or on an as-needed basis before sexual activity.

Medications for erectile dysfunction, like Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis (tadalafil), may also assist in addressing PE symptoms. Additionally, consulting with a therapist can provide further support.

Conclusion

Premature ejaculation is a prevalent issue, but it should never be approached with the misguided notion of using toothpaste. Toothpaste lacks any components that could delay ejaculation and can cause adverse effects on sensitive skin. Instead, opt for proven and safe methods or consider professional medical advice to effectively manage this condition.